tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74318016083021781662024-03-05T11:15:45.290+00:00Relationship Tips and Health AdviceFor all relationship advice and health tips relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.comBlogger336125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-51184747952071377542016-08-28T21:22:00.000+01:002016-08-28T21:22:40.807+01:005 Tips to Make Period Sex the Hottest Sex<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Your period can do many things: ruin your underwear, inspire works of art, and…boost your sex life? Sounds crazy, but it’s true. “Having sex while menstruating isn’t weird, uncommon, unhygienic, or unsafe,” says Sadie Allison, Ph.D., author of Ride 'Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking. Even better, it can help you bond with your partner. Try these tips to turn that time into the month into something you—and your vagina—can look forward to.</div>
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Sure, it makes sense to minimize the mess by doing things like laying down a dark towel. Bedding isn’t cheap! But sex can be a little chaotic during the most normal of sessions, so getting it on with Aunt Flo as a companion practically guarantees a bit of bloodshed. Instead of being embarrassed, try to think of it as hot proof that you’re doing something that can be seen a a little taboo.</div>
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“Doing things that feel forbidden can be a turn on,” says Megan Fleming, Ph.D., sex and relationship expert. “When you’re doing something transgressive, it can induce physiological effects like your heart rate going up.” Your body can interpret that as either anxiety or excitement, depending in part on how you frame the situation mentally. To that end, think of yourself as a badass who’s breaking her previous sex rules, then keep at it. And don’t worry about him freaking out at the sight of some blood. “If he’s game to have sex on your period, he already knows that might happen,” says Fleming.</div>
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“Sex is not all about penetration,” says Allison. "Break out the tongue." Anatomy-wise, your clitoris hangs out up to two inches above your vagina. If he aims his efforts there, chances are he won’t taste a hint of blood. If you want to take an extra precaution, turn to a tampon. “The best position would be on your back, as gravity would be in your favor if there did happen to be leakage,” says Alison.</div>
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Whether you’ve been a couple forever or are in a brand-new relationship, taking challenging risks together can bring you closer. “Pushing your boundaries in a relationship is like being up on a tightrope together,” says Fleming. “You’re doing something unknown, and it feels a little edgy. That quality can make the sex that much more exciting.” The best part of it is that a good partner will be the emotional equivalent of a safety net under that tightrope. If you’re overcome with mortification at any point in the experience, he should reassure you that it’s all good.</div>
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While doing the deed on your period can feel like a sexy risk, be sure to keep it from becoming an actual health risk: Use a condom if you’re not trying this out in a monogamous relationship where you’ve both been tested. As a bonus, the condom will help keep you from getting pregnant (because yes, you can even on your period), and he’ll be able to roll off the rubber and commence the cuddling ASAP instead of cleaning himself off.</div>
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4. Consider a menstrual cup</h2>
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Although menstrual cups aren’t necessarily new on the scene, many women still don’t know they’re an option. “They tuck in under your cervix to catch and hold the menstrual flow,” says Allison. Some aren’t for penetration, but others, like Softcup are A-okay for P in V. And even if some blood does sneak out, it’s no big deal. “It’s really just a little harmless color and extra lube,” says Allison.</div>
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Talk about getting wet and wild! Combining your period with shower sex not only protects your bedsheets from any accidental blood stains, it expedites the clean-up process and can make you feel more at ease with what’s going on. Another point in the period-shower sex column is that while the water would normally wash your natural lubrication away, your period blood will be there to help keep things slick, says Fleming. For the sake of a smooth ride, it’s still smart to keep too much water from coming into contact with your nether regions. You can even apply a bit of lube in the shower, says Fleming. Just don’t go overboard—a broken bone doesn’t make for a good boning session.</div>
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It's not always easy to tell if your partner's drinking habits are totally normal or a sign of a bigger issue. But a few key factors, such as how often he slings a drink and how much he downs, can clue you in.</h4>
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"People who have a healthy relationship with alcohol don’t drink often enough or to the point of excess where they could have a problem," says Jasmine Aranda, addiction counselor and clinical director at The Foundry Treatment Center in Steamboat Springs, Colorado.</div>
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But alcoholics function differently. "An alcoholic is psychologically and physically dependent on the chronic consumption of alcohol and often can’t stop drinking once they’ve started," says Randall Dwenger, M.D., psychiatrist and medical director at Mountainside Treatment Center in Canaan, Connecticut.</div>
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If you notice your partner’s constantly drinking to the point of inebriation and verbalizing a desire to get drunk, fast, that’s a sign of alcoholic behavior. "Often alcoholics will drink even before going to an event where there will be more drinking, so as to get ahead of the game," says Dwenger. "This may be their way of reducing any anxiety over the event or the people who will be there." Talk to your partner about drinking in excess and the toll it’s taking on your relationship, health, and finances, says Aranda.</div>
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For most people, their weight, gender, and diet determine how much alcohol they can consume. But an alcoholic's tolerance spikes because of their increased alcohol consumption. This can lead to serious alcohol dependence, organ damage, and even death, says Tiffany Louise, L.C.S.W., life coach and therapist for a top treatment center for addictions. "If your partner can consume a relatively large amount of alcohol and still appear relatively normal, this may indicate their body is creating a tolerance," she says.</div>
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When getting drunk becomes the top priority in their life, alcoholism is to blame. "When you’re dependent on alcohol, drinking alone is more important than spending time with loved ones," says Dwenger. These signs should instantly signal the need for professional help. "Tell your partner that they need to meet a professional, and that you’re willing to support them along the way," says Aranda.</div>
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If your partner tells you he has to stay late at work but comes home hammered, he could be on the road to alcoholism—or is already there. "Dishonesty about the amount or frequency in which your partner is drinking can escalate much further as his or her condition worsens," says Dwenger. "Soon you may start noticing that vodka becomes their drink of choice, as its scent is easier to conceal than other types of liquors." A lot of partnered alcoholics will also hide supplies of alcohol in unusual places to make their partner think their drinking is still "normal." Try talking to your partner about why he or she is being dishonest, mention your concerns, and discuss how you can address this issue together, says Aranda.</div>
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If your partner takes a break from drinking only to experience withdrawal symptoms, like headaches, nausea, tremors, anxiety, irritableness, or even hallucinations or seizures that send him or her back to the bottle, seek help immediately. "Withdrawal means that they experience negative physical effects when they stop using alcohol for a period of time," says Louise. This is why people who are physically dependent on alcohol won’t go a very long time between episodes of using. "If hallucinations or seizures occur, call 911 and seek the help of a medical professional immediately," says Aranda. "And if withdrawal symptoms are milder, get a medical evaluation by a doctor."</div>
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If your S.O. has experienced multiple DUIs, lost his or her job, or cut ties with friends or family while continuing to drink, that's a problem. "An alcoholic has difficulty maintaining responsibilities at home, work, or school," says Dwenger. "So if your partner was always on top of his or her schedule and suddenly can’t remember to pick up the groceries or show up at a monthly meeting because of their drinking, this change in behavior may indicate a problem with alcohol." Not only does this put his safety and health at serious risk, but it can also have severe impacts on yours.</div>
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"Unfortunately, true progress can only be made if your partner is willing to admit a problem and seek help," says Aranda. "If your partner remains unwilling to change and move forward, know that you cannot be held responsible for guiding your partner to health." It's your partner who must take the first steps towards recovery. If your partner isn’t open to getting better, it may be time to consider a professional intervention.</div>
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When my two closest friends invited me into their marriage, I thought it was the perfect relationship. Until it wasn't. </h3>
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Champagne flute in hand, I stood with my two best friends at the front desk of a resort in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, confronting the situation with our room.</div>
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The hotel wanted to give us a room with two beds. "We'd rather have a king size," my best friend said.</div>
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I stood by with her husband, letting her do the talking. The three of us had been best friends for six years, since college. They'd been married four years that week. Standing there with them, sweating in the hotel lobby, amused at the concierge's confusion, nothing felt more right.</div>
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Just a few months before the trip, over a long weekend, all three of us had slept together like three spoons, her in the middle. It was her idea — she said she wanted the closeness. I thought it was sweet. It felt entirely natural to be in such close physical proximity to the two people I had often felt emotionally closest to.</div>
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Inevitably, we all got drunk the next day. Fueled by alcohol and the spirit of the weekend, she took things up a notch and showed me their sex toy collection. She dressed me up in costumes — then asked me to make out with her while her husband watched and made suggestions.</div>
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When I left, I wanted more. It seemed like we all did. It made the implausible seem possible.</div>
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By the time we were vacationing together, they had introduced me to the concept of a "unicorn" — a bisexual person who could join an existing couple without threatening their relationship. I wasn't sure the definition fit me, but I was willing to give it a try.</div>
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That summer things progressed even further: We moved into a studio apartment together. Granted, he was only there part-time, holding down a job in another state. But she and I did everything together, from planning meals to planning a future. She slept curled around me in bed and we shared an easy physical affection (she'd often email him during the day to suggest including me in their foreplay). But it wasn't just physical — we even built detailed daydreams about the three of us living together full-time.</div>
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But there were some awkward moments too — some indication that not everything was OK. When I picked him up from the airport to spend a week with us every month, she'd often ask me to wait in the car before coming home — while they had sex. Sometimes, they also had sex in the bathroom while I was in our shared full-size bed. I pretended it didn't bothered me.</div>
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Then, one morning in July after she left for work, he turned to me in the bed we all shared, slid his hand up my stomach, and said, "I could trace the lines of your body all day." When he kissed me, I didn't say no. He said we could keep going and I said yes. Then he said he didn't think we should tell her.</div>
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"I'm not going to go any farther with you than she has," he said, although he immediately did. I consented to that too.</div>
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That fall, I lived alone while they went back to school. They talked about a future with me in it but made their plans without my input. I struggled with how distant our reality seemed from the dreams we'd shared. When I reached out to talk about it, only he answered. This was also not the "unicorn" way — I was supposed to be "easy" and not cause problems for the couple. But I deserved to know where this was going and I wanted to feel included, like a valued part of their relationship.</div>
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Eventually he told me, months after she told him, that she didn't want to include me in their sex life anymore. But I didn't know where that left me — I still wanted to be with them. So I did the next best thing to stay involved: I tried on the idea of being someone's mistress. I clung to him and his talk of a long-term relationship with me.</div>
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For six months, he and I were secretly having weekly video chat sex during her night class, talking on the phone on his way to or from work, or exchanging daily Snapchats and emails.</div>
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I never asked him to leave his wife for me. To me, they were still a package deal. I knew I didn't want to give up either of them, but I was terrified of losing him. I wanted him to be mine, I told him, but I didn't need him to be all mine. If she'd ever asked, I would have said I felt the same way about her.</div>
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The week after Christmas, he called it off. He said our relationship was destroying him. He asked if we could stay friends "without all the sexual stuff." I said no. I said I could no longer keep his secret. I finally demanded he tell his wife what he'd told me: that he wanted both of us. I said I could share if she could.</div>
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When you ask him to stop doing something, he thinks it's funnier if he just keeps doing it = NOPE.</h2>
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1. He stares at his phone like it's a hot girl he wants to sleep with and stares at you like you're a pile of old cheese he keeps meaning to throw out. </h3>
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I know that pretty much our whole generation does this to some degree but if he's more interested in checking out his friend Mikey's #TBT Instagram photos of spring break '08 than he is talking to you about your upcoming scuba trip, there's no way he's going to focus on giving you orgasms. </div>
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2. You have no idea whether or not he finds you pretty, even though you're dating. </h3>
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If you're dating a guy who doesn't make you feel like the Gisele of your bedroom, it's going to be hard for you to really let loose and have a great time in bed, because all you'll be thinking about is, Why are you having sex with me? Is it because you're just trying to be nice? Or did you think I was pretty at first and now you don't? I don't want to have sex with someone who thinks I am a troll because I am NOT a troll, Brian! and no one has ever had an orgasm that way. </div>
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Guys who are in their 20s and still have no idea if they want to work at a gas station so they can still have free time to play video games or "I don't know, like, run a company or something" are a mess in general. So when you end up sleeping with them and say something like, "Oh, god, that feels so good, don't stop," they immediately do it faster or take a detour to your breasts or something, and you're like, "Christ, I literally told you to do one thing." </div>
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5. When you ask him to stop doing something, he thinks it's funnier if he just keeps doing it. </h3>
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Seriously, if you know a guy who thinks it's funny to keep doing something you asked him to stop doing, or just to do it even more, run. I am not joking. Run fast and far and block his number for real. He will almost certainly not listen to you in bed. Byyyyeee.</div>
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6. He's as clumsy as a romantic comedy movie character in the first act. </h3>
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If he can't walk down stairs while holding lattes for both of you without slipping backward on an invisible banana peel and pulling down your skirt while trying to get back up, he's probably not going to be super coordinated in bed (and there will mostly be bruising from him accidentally hitting you in the face at some point). </div>
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7. The first time you guys kissed, he put his hand down your pants immediately. </h3>
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Guys who move this fast are like awkward ninth graders Frenching for the first time. Do you remember what that felt like? Now think how it would've felt with no clothes and penises. Are you barfing? I am barfing.</div>
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8. When you ask him what his goals for the future are, he shrugs and mumbles something about Playstation. </h4>
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Sex with this guy will probably be in between rounds of some kind of fighting game that you will wish would result in him taking charge and being passionate in literally any way, but he won't. When it comes to sex, guys like this have one move and that is to wing it. No one has ever had mind-blowing "wing it" sex. </div>
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9. He wears sunglasses inside and thinks that is the coolest of looks. </h3>
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And not even good sunglasses (I'm looking at you, guy in the photo above). Guys who are more concerned with the way they look at all times can never really throw themselves into sex because they're too busy worrying if their face looks porn-y while they're doing it. Think of the last time you noticed a guy was trying to look sexy and tell me your vag doesn't dry up like a bag of sand. </div>
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10. You hate the way he kisses. </h3>
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The first time you kiss someone usually needs a little work, but if it's just capital letters BAD and you keep trying to make it work but he is just. Not. Letting. You, odds are everything else is going to result in you wanting to punch a wall on your way home because you're so mad at how gross that was.</div>
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1. If this sucks, I'm leaving in an hour. </h2>
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<b>2. Even if this is horrible, at least I can tell all my friends while they give me pitying looks.</b> And then they'll say things like, "Ugh, I do not miss being single," and I'll be like, "I know!" and then we'll all get drunk. Not bad. </div>
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<b>3. What if this is seriously The One and then one day, we're like "And we met on Tinder. I know, lame, right?"</b> But then what we really do is look at each other adoringly because awwww, modern love.</div>
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This is such a relief/gigantic disappointment for which I wish I could sue him.</div>
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6. Yep, that explains why this guy is on Tinder. </h4>
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<b>7. If we hadn't met on Tinder, I wonder if we would've ever met any other way. </b>Like maybe at the supermarket if I literally ever stopped staring at cookies and imagining how great it would be to eat them.</div>
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<b>8. I'm so glad I messaged him even though he was making pseudo-duckface in one of his photos.</b> I might actually want to, dare I say it, see him again. Holy shit, it's happening. The Tinder second date. Alert the media, as I thought this was a myth.</div>
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<b>9. If we went back to my place, I wonder how soon I could get him to go down on me.</b> I don't know, sometimes you just have a craving for it like pizza or reruns of Family Matters.</div>
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Learn some helpful techniques to start manifesting an amazing intimate relationship today!</h3>
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<span style="background-color: #b6d7a8;">There are many things you can do to manifest an amazing intimate relationship, yet one of the fastest and most effective methods is keeping your attention on what you LIKE about the person, instead of what you DON’T like. Whatever you put your attention on expands and grows, so why not look for what is Divine rather than hideous? Whenever you find something negative in someone there’s that judgmental part in you secretly holding an attachment to what they “should” be. Everybody is exactly the way they need to be right now. The Universe is always exactly the way it should be in every moment! Realize the deeper truth in this and you’ll free your energy up to attracting that amazing intimate connection that feels like you’re living in that sacred special loving paradise everyday.</span></div>
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“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” ~ Tom Robbins</h4>
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The Universe is really quite brilliant in many amazing ways. It is designed to awaken each of us to our infinite path, purpose and potentiality. If you are going to discover your deepest spiritual depth and truly learn all the life lessons you are here to learn, you MUST open up and deepen in intimacy with someone. An intimate open loving relationship is your ULTIMATE teacher, because it forces you to go deeper inside and heal all those wounded parts that feel unworthy of love. Without true intimacy the mind will just make up stories that your relationship is O.K. as it is and while deeper inside you really feel disconnected from your partner. Only through opening up to deeper intimacy can you discover total healing and the real reason why you are on this amazing journey called Life.</div>
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Intimacy (into-you-me-see) can be uncomfortable at first, especially when you have to look at parts of yourself that you don’t like to look at. Yet, it invites you to release attachment from any protected, defended, velvet rut of an ego-trip, and forces you to reveal the most Divine aspects of your Being. Sharing your heart openly, vulnerably and freely with another is the strongest and most courageous thing a person can do on this Earth. The ultimate result is total freedom from suffering. Sure, intimacy is like anything in life, it contains both the negative and positive aspects depending on how you view it. Yet, on the path that truly fulfills your soul, intimacy creates a depth in understanding your real self that goes beyond anything you can do in your cave alone.</div>
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Yes, go ahead and simply ask for more intimacy (and the courage to ask for it) instead of just settling for the connection that you may be tolerating and coping with. If your relationship is not satisfying to your soul, you are not standing up for what you want. Imagine what that connection FEELS like and request the Universe sends it your way A.S.A.P! Be brave! Start by first focusing on the highest Source of consciousness, ask it to help you find what you honestly want, know that the Universe is listening and trust in whatever happens next!</div>
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A deeply intimate loving relationship with anyone always starts with discovering a intimacy within yourself. You can only attract intimacy on the outer if you find it first on your inner world. Someone can only love and respect you when you love and respect yourself. If you are afraid of getting hurt by opening to more intimacy, it means you haven’t yet been intimate with this part of you that is still afraid and protecting itself from being hurt. By being intimate with your inner world, you open the door for others to come inside and help you to discover the Divine Being you truly are.</div>
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One thing we don’t have is a shortage of human beings on this planet. There are over 6 billion people here today and some will instantly be intimate with you, while others currently have the ability to be cold, distant, prickly and protected. You deserve the fuzzy warm heart connection you want today! Affirm to the Universe that everyday you are opening to more intimacy with whomever can open to you. Don’t wait forever for the one you are in relationship with to open up to you. If they are blocked, send them lots of love, be with them as deeply as they’ll allow you, and continue on your journey to discover who you truly are. Once they see that you are FREE and finding heart opening connections with others they will have to break through their inner armor and melt those barriers to love inside. Finding intimacy for yourself helps them to initiate their healing process.</div>
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Your mind probably has many preconceived ideas of what intimacy should and should not look like. Remember that these are just concepts about love and ANY attachment to these concepts will limit your ability to experience a deeper intimacy within yourself. The purpose of intimacy is to be able to fully HEAL all your hidden wounded parts and constantly BE this open unlimited unstoppable loving being. Why else are you are? Stop playing small and living under the thumb of others expectations of you! </div>
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Start noticing how free you really are. When you drop these expectations you’ll be able to manifest a soul-to-soul connection that has TONS of intimate eye/heart contact and have healthy boundaries with them. This is your life, if you don’t start living it today you will just postpone it forever and never be alive. You may miss one of the greatest experiences of life if you don’t create a heart felt open minded intimate connection with another person.</div>
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relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.com0Germany, PA 17340, USA39.736058100000008 -77.1082443999999927.266638100000009 -97.762541399999989 52.205478100000008 -56.45394739999999tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-12940001878533527642016-07-19T09:34:00.000+01:002016-07-19T09:34:56.465+01:00Five Ways To Stay Positive<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;">Staying positive during this era of information can seem impossible with all of the hatred and negativity that is being taught to the masses. Having a perception that gives off good vibes and vibrant energy, can be the defining moment that changes your life irrevocably. Accentuating all of the positive elements in your life is easy, once you know what to look for. These tips are meant to alter your perception into finding an equilibrium that aids your productivity. Having negative thoughts determines your future. Why not turn the frown upside down and make a serious change today?</span></div>
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1. Tell Yourself How Precious Life Is</h2>
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Whatever your circumstances may be, there’s always something to be thankful for. Even during your worst days there’s something positive that happens during that particular day. And diverting your focus to that one variable can cause you to remain positive under duress. Life isn’t really without problems. Finding solutions are part of the test and must be respected. Remind yourself how wonderful it is to be alive, and see the beauty that surrounds you.</div>
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Telling yourself that great things will happen after an unfortunate situation has occurred is a sign of leadership. You are in the driver’s seat of your own life and get to choose the destination. Don’t let a temporary moment ruin your overall wellness.</div>
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Finding things you love to do can take your mind off of what is stressful. Everybody needs to experience stress from time to time, but don’t let it bring you down. If you are consciously aware of what makes you happy, put some time aside and focus on that particular activity, to take your mind off of what’s bothering you.</div>
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This will give you a sense of clarity and rejuvenate the soul. Recharging the spirit is important, by taking time out for doing something that relaxes you. Stress can cause numerous health problems. Changing your mentality can either ameliorate or exacerbate the situation.</div>
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Living how you move, what you do, how you talk, and how you look is a direct link to spreading positive energy into the world. This is easier said than done, but if you don’t like something about yourself then try your best to change it. Listen openly to criticism from genuine people, take their advice, and use it as a tool to improve yourself.</div>
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Be mindful of every action you make, because one wrong move can breakdown a solidified core of stability. Becoming a ball of bright, shimmering energy is all about loving efficiency and effectiveness, which starts from digging deep within yourself. Let the world come to you, and never put on a show for the world.</div>
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4. Seek The Truth</h2>
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Everybody will have an opinion about who you are and what you do. Tuning those opinions out are very important. They won’t change who you are, and nine times out of ten–a persons perception of who you are is fabricated. Nobody is liked by everyone, and let’s face it: life would be excruciatingly dull and boring if you were. Be honest and value integrity. Don’t believe everything you hear, and when doing research make sure it’s done in different stages.</div>
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Finding the truth through these thick layers of deception isn’t easy. But with the right motivation to do so, you will be on the correct path. Everyone is ignorant to something, but don’t be proud of your ignorance. Strive to learn more about the world, and you discover more about yourself.</div>
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Good habits are things you do everyday, but change up the order from time to time. Scheduling your day mechanically can be a nuisance. Switch up the pace from time to time. This will open up the flood gates to free thinking. Analyzing events and reflecting on new scenarios is a great way to combat the mediocrity of a routine. Embrace change and enjoy the beautiful nature, which is the essence of life.</div>
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;">Okay, you’ve finally done it—you’ve worked up your courage and left the toxic relationship behind. But what about moving forward? The breaking of any relationship, especially a toxic romantic relationship, can leave pain that may seem unbearable. However, moving past that pain is easier than you might think.</span></div>
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It might sound ridiculous to some, but take time to tell yourself that you are smart, beautiful, and worthy of a good life and good relationship to boot. Say it out loud or within your mind, in the mirror, shower, car, wherever you feel comfortable. If you need to, create an affirmation to repeat to yourself on a regular basis. Maintaining your self-esteem, especially in the wake of a toxic relationship, can be difficult, but it’s essential for those who need a reminder of their worth as a person.</div>
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Whether or not you have a good support system from family or friends you can still create support for yourself. A relationship counselor who earned their master’s degree in social work online says that exercise, meditation, and hobbies can all be excellent ways of coping with emotional pain. Simply adding a one-hour event into your schedule could be one hour that is pain-free. Don’t feel obligated to participate in activities you don’t enjoy just for the sake of exercising. Instead, discover what interests you. Whether it’s yoga, aerobics, swimming, tennis, or even extreme roller skating–whatever form of exercise appeals to you is the one you should be doing. If you’re not the athletic type and would rather meditate, find the method that works best for you. Not all meditation has to be done in cross-legged science–meditation takes several forms, of which there is sure to be one which appeals to you!</div>
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Your friends that you have right now are probably fantastic people, however, it is often through meeting new people that you can rediscover your lost self and begin to move past the pain. Your friends may have been a support group during the toxic relationship—and they should continue to be—but it is easy to dwell on the past and your old relationship when talking to them. Keep those friends close, but look for other people and groups to relate to. By putting yourself out in the open and making some new friends or acquaintances, you are opening new doors and shutting out the pain involved in negative memories. You may also find that new friends offer a fresh perspective on your situation which could help you overcome some of the residual pain.</div>
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You’ve been hurt but that doesn’t mean you’re broken. Your family, friends, and even YOU are waiting for you to ask for help. It is okay to ask for help and no, you won’t sound weak doing so. It takes immense strength to ask for any kind of help, so in a way, asking for help is making you stronger and thus it can be used as a tool to counter the lingering pain. Those who care about you will not judge you or dismiss you for asking for help because that’s not what caring people do! They will be cheering for you every step of the way, so don’t hesitate to ask them for the occasional support.</div>
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Moving past the pain of a toxic romantic relationship seems like a battle that is unwinnable. However, if you invest in a good support system and believe in yourself you can take small steps to minimize the pain and eventually leave it far, far behind.</div>
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1. Hey, why don't we put a towel down? </h3>
He knows what's up. He's surfed your crimson wave before, and he knows doing that is less World Surf League and more Blake Lively in The Shallows. He's just saying, in the nicest way possible, that things are going to get messy.<br />
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2. Are you horny because you want me or because your period is making your hormones get you all jacked up? </h3>
He doesn't care either way, because it still means sex, but still ... it'd be nice to know he's desirable. Sometimes you want to feel wanted, you know? Just kidding, he really doesn't care.<br />
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3. Is that, uh ... natural lubricant or, um ... natural blood? </h3>
Probably a little of column A, and a little of column B. Some questions are better left without answers.<br />
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7. Is it rude if I don't offer to go down on you? </h3>
Because ... this sort of feels like a lose-lose situation.<br />
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9. Are you putting war paint on me right now? </h3>
I feel like I have tribal ink all over my chest and arms. This is some Lord of the Rings orc shit right here. I feel like I need to run off into battle and plunder a village.<br />
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Fear, nervousness, anxiety, and the reality that you could be denied creep their way into your mind and cause you to clam up and freeze whenever you’re given the opportunity to talk to a guy you like.</div>
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<span style="background-color: #6fa8dc;">Easing Your Nerves When Talking to a Guy You LikObviously, if you like someone you’re going to want to talk to them at some point in time – especially if you want to move things along and potentially date them. But the question is how to talk to a guy you really like.</span></div>
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If you’re someone that gets really nervous and freezes up when you try talking to a guy you like, then these tips can help calm your nerves so you can get a real, meaningful conversation going.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: blue;">1. Be Confident</span></h3>
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The one thing that can make talking to a guy you like so much easier and less nerve wrecking is simply being confident. Work on making yourself the best version of you so you can feel great about who that is and you’ll find it much easier to approach any guy you like and talk to him with ease. Another bonus of being confident is that guys can’t resist a super confident woman.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: cyan;">2. Realize that He’s Just Like You</span></h3>
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He’s just a person! He has insecurities and nervousness just like you do. By realizing that he’s not much different than you, you’ll actually reduce your nerves a lot and that will makes things run much more smoothly. Just picture him as one of your friends and not someone you’re head over heels with!</div>
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This will get you to relax a LOT. Think about the fact that he might like you, too. He might be just as nervous to talk to you as you are to talk to him. Thinking about this is one way that will relax you since you may not be alone in being freaked out. It’ll make you feel more normal knowing that he could be super nervous, too.</div>
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If you really want to relax before talking to a guy you like all you have to do is plan out what you’re going to say. Think of different topics to get the conversation rolling and make a plan of action. Being prepared is a great way to ease nerves.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: blue;">5. Practice with a Friend</span></h3>
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Another great step to prepare for talking to a guy you like that will reduce your stress and anxiety about it is to just practice on a friend. Ask a friend of yours to pretend to be him an then practice what you’ll say and how you’ll talk to them. Your friend can give you pointers and being more prepared can definitely help you seem more confident.</div>
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This will reduce your nervousness by a LOT. Being in a large group of people is really the best way to talk to a guy you like and not get too nervous about it because you have other people as buffers. It takes the pressure off of you to supply the content for conversation and being in the group of people you know will make you feel a lot more comfortable around them.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: blue;">7. Get Support From Your Friends</span></h3>
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Tell your friends about this person and get their support. Tell them your fears and ask them for advice on how to handle things. They’ll be more than willing to lend a hand and help you land the guy of your dreams! Having their support can do a LOT to make you feel more confident in your approach to talking to him.</div>
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There’s nothing worse than finally getting to talk to the guy you really like and then not knowing what to say at all. Awkward silences make the entire situation stiff and nerve wrecking. Here are a few things you can talk to him about in case you both come up short with topics.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: cyan;">1. Current Events</span></h4>
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There is so much going on in the world at any given moment and it’s always something to talk about. Ask him if he’s heard about something that happened lately. If he hasn’t yet then you can tell him all about it and get the conversation moving in that direction. If he has, you can easily ask him what his opinion is and talk about that.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: lime;">2. Awesome New Movies</span></h4>
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If you’ve been to the movies lately, simply as him if he’s seen the movie you just recently saw. This is a great way to find out if you two have similar interests and you can even pick his mind on why he did or didn’t like the movie. This can also open a door to a whole new topic of discussion revolving around favorite movies, characters, and more.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: blue;">3. Mutual Interests</span></h4>
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If he’s wearing a T-shirt of a band you really like, talk to him about it! Starting a conversation by pointing out that the two of you have mutual interests is basically a surefire way to get him to talk to you a lot. If you start talking about stuff he’s interested in he’ll almost always want to talk more about it and you won’t even have to carry the conversation very much at all.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: lime;">4. Talk About Yours or His Pets</span></h4>
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If you have pets, start the conversation by talking about a funny thing your pet did recently. Everyone loves to hear a good, funny pet story and he won’t be any different. In fact, you can even ask if he has any pets, too. If he does he’ll more than likely open up about a funny story of his own and you can laugh about your goofy animals together.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: blue;">5. You can also talk about the Crazy Weather</span></h4>
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The weather is changing all the time and sometimes it takes a turn for the worse. If you’ve just walked inside after blistering heat or bitter cold, complain about it! Humans love to bond over mutual distaste in the weather – believe me. By opening a conversation about the weather they’ll more than likely be willing to talk more about it since it’s an automatic common interest. Just make sure not to linger on the topic of weather for too long because it can get boring.</div>
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ow that you have the basics down on how to talk to a guy you like, you need some inside information that can take you from just talking to him to him asking you out. These will help the conversation flow smoothly and make you look appealing to him.<br />
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: cyan;">1. Smile a LOT</span></h3>
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Smiling is captivating. When you smile you always look like you’re having the time of your life and humans are programmed to want to be a part of that fun. If you start talking and smile at him a lot he’ll want to keep talking to someone who seems so happy and positive. Not only that, but he’ll also start to realize that you’re into him since smiling is a surefire sign that you like someone a lot.</div>
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Don’t look at your feet or at the wall behind him – no matter how nervous you are. If you want to be confident, it starts with the eye contact. Eye contact also commands attention so his thoughts can’t drift when you’re speaking to him. This will keep the conversation alive even if you two don’t have anything pressing to discuss.</div>
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No matter what, never pretend to be someone you’re not. You should always tell the truth – especially when talking to a guy you like for the first time. You want him to like you for who you are, right? Then don’t act like you like something just because he does. He’ll be able to see through you and he won’t like it.</div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: lime;">4</span><span style="background-color: magenta; color: lime;">. Don’t Give Away Too Much Information</span></h3>
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Don’t tell him your entire life story within the first two minutes of talking to him. That’s way too much too soon and he’ll be scared off. You also want to maintain some mystery so he has to press and ask questions in order to get to know you.</div>
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The best way to keep a conversation and let the other person know you’re listening to what they’re saying is to ask questions! If he says he likes a certain movie best, ask him why. Don’t be afraid to ask as many questions as you want – just don’t make it feel like an interview.</div>
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We’ve all been there before. We have all been super nervous to talk to a guy we like simply because we didn’t know how! These tips will help you to get what you want from him. Comment bellow to tell us about a time you finally talked to a guy you liked!</div>
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<span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;">The ancient practice of yoga offers many benefits to modern day woman. With so many new exercise fads on the market, it’s no wonder why this one has stuck around. Not only is it safe, it offers much more than a six pack and weight loss. Yoga is a well rounded form of exercise that can improve all aspects of your life physically and emotionally. Let’s take a look at some of the top benefits a daily yoga practice can offer women.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: magenta; color: blue;">1. Easy On The Joints</span></h2>
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Yoga is one of the safest exercises available it doesn’t break down joint cartilage and is focused on joint health. It’s focus on alignment and balance help you learn how to listen to your body without pushing yourself too far too quickly. Unlike other forms of exercise, it’s not competitive and is focused on long-term physical maintenance. As you increase flexibility in your joints, you are less likely to twist an ankle, seriously injure yourself in a fall or doing other activities. Your joint pain caused by inflammation will also diminish with a healthy lifestyle and regular yoga practice.</div>
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Yoga involves many ways of holding your own body weight and engaging your muscles in ways that builds strength very quickly. The breathing method in yoga allows for a higher oxygen intake which also helps build strong muscles. The variety of movements allow muscles to develop with adequate flexibility and focuses on strengthening the whole body. Poses such as side plank and chaturanga, the yogi push up, will help build strength that will assist you in your day to day activities.</div>
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Regular digestion is hard to maintain when most of us sit for a living and are tempted to eat things that don’t help us digest. The twists in yoga and a number of other poses such as plow pose, actually stimulate your digestion process and are designed to break up food from the intestinal walls and move it in the right direction. Instead of spending money on laxatives, you can pay for your yoga studio membership. The chronic constipation that plagues so many people and causes other serious health complications will be a thing of the past with a regular yoga practice.</div>
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Yoga releases endorphins that will leave you feeling more positive right away. The more you practice, the better you feel. Yoga has been used for therapy and in treatment of substance abuse. It also helps to regulate your hormones to balance your emotions. You will feel more optimistic about the future as your creativity is stimulated and you begin to see more options to get you where you would like to go.</div>
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Not only will yoga help remove toxins that can create acne but it will also improve the circulation to your skin to improve your complexion. Inversions like headstands and handstands are known to help improve complexion and regularly sweating will make your skin soft and glowing. As you learn upside down poses such as shoulder stand and forearm stand, you will bring fresh blood, oxygen and nutrients to your face which will make it plump and less wrinkled. Your collagen growth will be stimulated as well.</div>
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Besides having more strength and flexibility, your lover may notice all types of changes in you. Your mood will improve, your confidence and your patience. Yoga helps you focus on the things you love about your partner and gives your libido a nice boost as an added bonus. The energy center associated with sexual energy, the sacral chakra, can open as a result of yoga.</div>
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Yoga helps build confidence because it helps women accept their body as it is. It teaches you to develop a healthy relationship to your body and not think negatively about yourself. It helps you recognize how to overcome obstacles like fear and pursue what is truly important to you. As you develop a regular practice and notice progress, you will feel as though you can put your mind to anything you want to accomplish. As you overcome your fears by doing challenging poses like handstands, you will learn practical ways to approach fears you have in your life.</div>
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Yoga is a healthy habit that keeps you looking young. The increased oxygen and blood flow to your face from bringing your heart above your head leaves you glowing and helps stimulate collagen growth. It helps many people replace other habits such as smoking or drinking which age your body. Yoga gives you more energy to maintain an active lifestyle and feel vibrant. The yogic lifestyle also encourages eating a plant based diet which contains phytonutrients that help you maintain your girlish looks. Yoga also helps you sleep more deeply which will help to keep you looking youthful.</div>
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There are many types of yoga that help alleviate depression. As your body’s energy increases from back bends, you will feel stronger motivation to get things done. As your blood becomes pure from regular digestion, your brain will be able to think more clearly and your emotions will become more stable. Yoga releases endorphins that help you feel better right away and optimistic about the future. Your stress will become more manageable as your nervous system is calmed by the deep breathing.</div>
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You will develop muscle definition and long lean muscles from the strengthening poses that also aim to stretch your muscles. Yoga has a healthy balance of poses that require flexing your muscles and poses that allow your connective tissue to release in deep stretches. Poses like warrior two and dancer’s pose lengthen the large muscle groups in the body on the legs, arms and back.</div>
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relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.com0Africa, OH 43021, USA40.1822849 -82.957126500000015-33.3265906 111.80849849999998 90 82.277248499999985tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-41955841573292322792016-07-13T08:11:00.000+01:002016-07-13T08:11:27.686+01:00What Men Always Notice About You During Sex<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;">First off, the things we don’t notice: if your nails are chipping, your elbows are dry, or you have an ingrown hair somewhere along your bikini line. These are details that generally sail right past us. We’re more inclined to notice the big-picture behaviors that give us clues about whether we have serious chemistry. Are the sparks flying? Are we turning you on? Are you genuinely excited to be naked right now? These questions are important to men, and here’s what we look for to find answers.</span></div>
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If we’re doing all the work and you’re just sort of hanging out to see what’s going to happen next, we’re going to think you’re not all that interested. So show a little excitement, eh? Take the lead in unbuckling or unclasping something. Roll us over, and get on top. Help us make this moment awesome.</div>
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If you’re stiff, it puts a chill on the moment. We wonder if there’s a problem or if you’re feeling self-conscious. But if you’re revved up and sensual, that turns us on. We want to feel your body writhe against us. We want your chest to press against ours, to feel your thigh slide up between ours. The more you engage your entire body in the moment, the more we feel like you’re excited to be with us.</div>
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Are you looking deeply into ours? Are you checking out our freshly naked bodies? Both options are good. What makes us uncomfortable is if you’re looking down (are you having doubts?), checking out your own body (feeling self-conscious?), or gazing off to the wall or ceiling (just bored?). So make sure your eyes aren’t telling us something you don’t want them to. Let us know you’re pumped to be here with us.</div>
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No, I’m not talking about whether it stinks (although—let’s hope it doesn't!). I’m talking about how it sounds. Is it heavier than usual? Similarly, is your voice deeper? These clues tell us whether you’re genuinely aroused. You don’t need to play it up by panting like you just ran a 5-K or trying to mimic the deeper notes on an organ. But if you’re getting into it, let it show. Let us feel your breath against our neck, whisper something sexy into our ear, let us know you can’t wait for what’s about to happen. Our arousal feeds off of yours, so don’t be afraid to be visibly turned on.</div>
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relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.com0Ukraine48.379433 31.16557999999997737.5652835 10.511282999999978 59.1935825 51.819876999999977tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-39904674570785967632016-07-12T07:48:00.000+01:002016-07-12T07:48:39.928+01:007 Powerful Relationship Rules You Should Follow For Long Lasting Relationship<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;">Here are the seven regulations we've chalked out for you which one ought to abide by when in a relationship. While there is no rule book that Cupid donates to you after he has struck the arrow, there still are some (read: silent) hard and fasts that you should keep in mind lest you travel through choppy waters in your relationship. Be aware you don't lose balance when sitting on one plank of the love seesaw. Here's making things wee-simpler, we give you a rundown on major relationship rules you just shouldn't mess with.</span></div>
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You've made things clear to him; he shouldn't talk with his ex, shouldn't go for those Friday night basketball games with the boys, no late night talks for him with his girl friends... with all this and more, just remember one thing. Rules are meant to be the same for both of you. Don't think you'll set all the rules out for him and, side-by-side, happily keep in touch with that ex of yours or chat with your guy pals without letting him know.</div>
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Friends are the most crucial part of anyone's life. But the moment people enter into a relationship, they tend to forget their friends, ignoring them to the fullest. That is a complete no-no! Don't loosen ties with your pals just because you're hooked.</div>
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We say communicate your heart out, but only when the time is right. Don't use that 'L' word for the sake of it, just because you have mistaken like for love. Contemplate on it clearly before expressing it to the other person.</div>
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Remember, it's just you and your partner who're in this relationship, so better keep any third person aside. If there's a problem that's irking you or your partner, try and sort it out among yourself rather than involve more people. Most problems don't need a third party involvement. So, keep the others out of this one.</div>
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Bored? Well, try to spunk up that relationship, or else walk out of it. But don't you cheat! Cheating is no answer to boredom, and it is totally unacceptable. Make sure you tell your partner clearly that you're not happy with the way things are shaping up between the two of you, and sort it out, or else, walk out of it.</div>
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Yes your ex must have been a darling! A gem-of-a-person none can match up to. But get the point, you ain't with that ex of yours. So, don't compare your current with your past. Instead, just be happy with what you've got at hand.</div>
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He cares for you, but you can't invest time for them? Or you're unable to tell the person how much you love them? If you're not there for someone, chances are, someone else will be there for them. So, either care for your partner, or don't crib later if someone replaces you in their life.</div>
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relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.com0African Lodge, 47 African St, Grahamstown, 6139, South Africa-33.3077082 26.52208829999995-33.3081227 26.521457799999951 -33.3072937 26.52271879999995tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-27734052568469178722016-07-12T07:26:00.000+01:002016-07-12T07:26:24.003+01:00Dating Advice: What Keep You From Finding Love<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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They tend to think of it as a escapade -one that can be fun, but with a healthy potency for disaster.But according to relationship counsellors, most don't take the first step because of the fear of the unknown, or rejection. These loners have a tendency to believe in the age-old myths that keep them single and always looking. Knowing these myths will help you reel the right fish successfully. Check out what keep you from finding love...</div>
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So when you know, you know? Actually, no. Most of the times, we are quick to judge, and dismiss those who don't share similar interests.We'll make up our minds about someone even before we properly get to know them; forget giving them a chance.</div>
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But remember, being quick to judge ensures that no one will ever measure up. This will keep you in a constant state of despair. Come on, be practical. It takes time to get to know someone -especially if they are super quiet -so let them be and let things happen for you. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the experience before you decide how you feel.Patience is a virtue, and more often than not, it's rewarding.</div>
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While keeping an open mind is key, it is also important to listen to your hunch. Our inner voice, or what we know as intuition, can give us information that our rational minds may not understand. This means you may find yourself on a date with someone who you didn't think was your type, but you find yourself attracted to.Listen.</div>
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Don't be influenced by what your friends say -or friends of friends, for that matter. If online dating makes you cringe, don't go down that route. The path of finding true love is meant to be fun and exciting; it's not supposed to feel like an obligation, or a chore.</div>
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People are everywhere, so are potential partners -at your workplace, yoga class, club, or at the promenade walking their dog -so keep your heart open.Each time you leave your house, tell yourself, `wonder whom I'll meet today'.This sets you on the right path for connections in a var ety of places. The Universe is always listening to your thoughts, so put the signal out there.</div>
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Rule number one, dating should not feel like a grind. It should make you feel happy and allow you to go with the flow, and be yourself. We meet the right people when we feel great inside. Make sure you are having fun in the process of dating, and you'll be on the right track. If you focus all your energies on the give and take, demand and supply, then you are better off trading at the markets, not with people.</div>
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Yes, dating is about getting to know other people, but it is also about getting to know yourself better.</div>
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We're putting ourselves out there, trying to make an impres sion, hoping to a be liked. When fears come up, ask yourself: What do I fear so much? What insecurities am I feeling? How can I try to be truer to myself? Rather than letting these challenges drag you down, let them be opportunities for you to stretch and grow into a new level of confidence.</div>
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When relationships end, we feel bad.In this case, dating someone else could be a defence against difficult feelings. This is when you should avoid a rebound, because you're attracting someone else as a distraction.This is not fair to you or your partner.Only when you are over somebody, will you feel both good and relieved.This is a great place to be in and the right space to attract someone new.Make sure you have healed from your previous heartbreak and have regained enough confidence and strength before you put yourself out there. When you take time to heal, you'll be fully ready for a new relationship when the time is right.</div>
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Life lesson to learn, note to self, or whatever else you'd like to #hashtag, and reaffirm: Never compromise quality over quantity. If you're filling up your schedule with dates, it scatters your energies and people sense it. We humans are always exchanging energies -even if it means sitting across the table with somebody sharing a cup of coffee. This mentality does not help you make genuine connections or find someone you love. Make every person you choose to go out feel important.This will increase your likelihood of being present on a date, and give you an opportunity to make a lasting connection.</div>
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Most of the people seek a relationship from the space of `I'm looking for someone to complete me'.Approaching a relationship from the stance of `what am I going to get?' is always a bad idea. Spend some time alone and find fulfilment within yourself first. When you're fulfilled in your own life, a fantastic relationship will be an amazing bonus. This is the secret to being fulfilled by love. Focus on having a good time, stay open to the possibilities, and be secure in the knowledge -your match is looking for you, just the way you are.</div>
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Love him or hate him, but you can't ignore him - yes, we are talking about the man of your life. He's probably the most loving creature in your life, but he can also be the perpetual torture in ways more than one.</div>
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Here are the top 10 cruel things that most men do to women.</h3>
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Ever wondered why men hate taking directions and prefer hunting out the place on their own, even if it means 2 hours delay and waste of gas. Well, the answer is the big ego they walk around with. This was the pettiest exemplar of a man's ego, which gets hurt at the drop of the hat and needs a massage whenever possible.</div>
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They'll not only remember the name of every cricketer and football player on the planet but will also know their scores by heart. But, the moment the deal is about remembering birthdays and anniversaries of people close to them, their brain suffers an ailment called 'selective memory syndrome'.</div>
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'Men do stare at women's breasts' has been stamped as official by a world wide survey. But how we wish they knew that their drooling at the sight of a well endowed woman is cruel not only to the victim of that gaze, but also to the woman sitting beside them. Yes, they don't miss any chance, even if it is when they are on a date!</div>
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Where in the world did men get that insecurity from? (Their mother? )They blame women for being jealous but a mere mention of another man from their girl can turn them into an ever clinging magnet.</div>
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Men can't get more cruel than this! They Love hanging around with the coolest and sexiest babe in the town, but when it comes to meeting mom, it's a 'homely' girl they start hunting for. You loved her dressing style and carefree attitude when she came for night-outs with you, what's with that marriage material hunt now?</div>
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How does it feel to take his 'where-about' calls every 15 minutes after you step out of the home? The care in that gesture goes out of the window and irritation takes charge. Don't they realise that we lived safe, sound and perfectly well in this world before they came into our lives. Hope someone is listening.</div>
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Yes, it feels nice when men are around for some help. However, their 'I-can-do-everything-under-the-sun' attitude does more harm than good, especially when they think themselves to be exalted beings - a plumber, electrician, carpenter and a financial adviser all rolled into one.</div>
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Women might be emotional but having a constant practical point of view, like men doesn't, score well always. Men will become better beings for sure, if they stop making fun of sentiments and ignoring them as useless.</div>
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It is very torturing for women when men don't learn to priorities their life post marriage. They blame her for being a clinging vine when she asks for his time, but how sane is it to have a bunch of friends in the backseat on a long-drive, which was planned to be a romantic one?</div>
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Undoubtedly, women love zest in bed, but it's very cruel of men to demand their partners to play the porn star they saw in that flick last night. It's better to let her be herself in a sexapade rather than putting her in an uncomfy situation and then blaming her for being non-cooperative.</div>
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Western society has this odd notion that strong, independent women are something of a new phenomenon. I’d argue that women have always been strong, we’re just now choosing to acknowledge it. At any rate, strong women are those who don’t rely on anyone else to make their way through life. They do whatever it takes to reach their goals. However, that doesn’t mean they don’t want an equally strong partner by their side along the way.</div>
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1. Strong women are always on a mission</h2>
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Strong women are deliberate in their planning. They know where they want to be in life and they set a clear path in order to get there. They always keep their eye on the goal. If you’ve found yourself dating a strong woman, know that you must fit into her greater plan somewhere.</div>
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2. Strong women go for what they want</h2>
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After they set their plans in motion, strong women stop at nothing until they reach their goals. They don’t settle for second best or “good enough.” They’ll reach for the stars, and won’t be happy until they get there. Again, if you’re currently in a relationship with a strong woman, be sure that you’re the one she wants, because she’s not settling for anything less than perfection.</div>
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3. Strong women take action</h2>
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Strong women don’t wait for others to catch up or for someone else to give them the “go ahead.” If a job offer comes up that your girlfriend or wife has been working hard for, don’t expect her to feel the need to discuss it with you first. If some handiwork is required around the house, don’t expect her to wait until you get home to dive right in and fix it. Don’t feel emasculated — how do you think she got so far in life in the first place?</div>
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4. Strong women are independent</h2>
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Strong women don’t need anyone else in their lives. They take action when something needs to be done and can carry their own. They’re not looking for someone to support them in a relationship — they’re looking for someone to grow with them. Don’t feel like you need to be the one bringing home the bacon, but don’t slack off, either. She’s her own woman, and if you’re not growing with her, she won’t need you around.</div>
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5. Strong women don’t mind being alone</h2>
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A strong woman sometimes needs time to herself. After a long day of work, she probably doesn’t want to run up to her man and put on the lovey-dovey housewife act. She might just need some time to rest and reflect on her day. Remember, she doesn’t live for you, so don’t expect her to go all puppy-dog eyed when you get home.</div>
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6. Strong women have strong friends</h2>
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Strong, independent women have friends with similar personalities. When they get together, you’re more likely to hear them discussing business mergers than gossipy office rumors. Although it may be intimidating to be in a room full of women who are talking over your head, you should definitely admire the drive and determination they all have.</div>
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7. Strong women crave knowledge and skill building</h2>
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Strong women are constantly learning and working to improve themselves. They don’t waste time on frivolous TV or social media garbage when they could be reading or taking a class to further themselves. Be prepared to be active if you’re dating a strong woman. She’ll always be open to new experiences, so you’d better be ready to expand your comfort zone along with her.</div>
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8. Strong women have strong values</h2>
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Strong women are not morally bankrupt, and they certainly don’t waver in their stances on certain topics. Expect her to stand up for what she believes in, and be prepared to be by her side when she takes action for a cause.</div>
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9. Strong women have a purpose</h2>
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Strong women don’t just have goals, they have a purpose for setting these goals. Of course, their goals most likely align with their value system. They view themselves as incredibly important, and they know they have the power to change the world for the better. Support their goals, and help to give them an even bigger purpose.</div>
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10. Strong women will show their soft side if they trust you</h2>
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Strong women aren’t immune to feeling sad, lonely, or defeated — regardless of how independent they are. However, they’ll only let their guard down around people they trust, such as family, good friends, and loved ones. If your strong-willed wife or girlfriend trusts you enough to bare her soul to you, know that you’re one of the most important people in her life. And realize you have a good thing going — don’t mess it up.</div>
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Most men make a few mistakes before they find a girl who is perfect for them. There are lots of things that you find out while you are with someone; for example they could be selfish or extremely high maintenance.</div>
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This can result in you feeling sad and unloved, but as you grow older you become more aware of what you want in a relationship. The perfect girl is out there – maybe you have already found her?</div>
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Here are 10 signs your girlfriend is one of the coolest in the world.</h2>
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1. She is independent</h2>
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No one wants to become a part-time carer for their partner, but some partners can be so needy and clingy that you end up feeling like their babysitter. A great girlfriend is independent and strong; instead of needing you there, she simply wants you to be there because she enjoys your company. Without you, her life doesn’t fall apart; she just gets on with it.</div>
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You and your girlfriend should be able to have conversations that last for hours and truly interest you. A relationship can last a lifetime, so it is important to find a girlfriend who interests and excites you.</div>
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Your girlfriend should be interested in your personal life, and she should be keen to meet the other people in your life. Even if she isn’t BBF with your little brother, it should be obvious that she is trying to love the people that you love.</div>
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4. She is intelligent</h2>
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Your girlfriend should open your mind up to new ideas and perspectives, teaching you new things while making you question what you already know. This is important for any long-term relationship; without intelligence conversation is difficult, and without conversation it is likely that the relationship will turn sour.</div>
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5. She is there for you when you are feeling low</h2>
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Your girlfriend is the one person who you can go to after a seriously hard day. She is the person who will listen to you vent before offering a much-needed hug. If your girlfriend is dismissive of your problems, there may be deeper problems in the relationship.</div>
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Respect is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. A great girlfriend won’t share your secrets with others, and she won’t try to push you around. It is worth noting that the respect must be mutual; you give respect to earn it.</div>
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When you meet someone truly amazing, they will inspire and motivate you to a be a better person. From advancing your career to becoming more compassionate, there are endless ways that your girlfriend can motivate you to be better.</div>
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In a relationship, both partners will have their own individual interest. An awesome girlfriend will encourage you to follow your interests, and she will continue to pursue her own. No matter how much she loves you, she understands that you love other things too.</div>
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9. She makes you laugh</h2>
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Laughing is the ultimate sign of happiness, and your girlfriend should regularly crack you up. Relationships have highs and lows; without someone who can make you laugh, the lows will be a lot more noticeable.</div>
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A great girlfriend doesn’t want to change her boyfriend. She will embrace all of his quirky traits, and she will even find them cute. If your girlfriend is trying to change you, it might be a sign that you two aren’t well suited. The girl who is loves you for you will never try to change who you are.</div>
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relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.com0Ghana Ln, Pasadena, TX 77505, USA29.6405492 -95.14635550000002729.637099199999998 -95.151398000000029 29.6439992 -95.141313000000025tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-3424839374494911192016-07-11T07:40:00.004+01:002016-07-11T07:40:56.878+01:007 Morning Habits to Increase Your Productivity For the Day<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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There is a lot of advice online about being more productive and time management apps are popping up by the day. This is because more people than ever are facing sleep deprivation and often insomnia, due to the ease of access to communication tools and technology. Sleep is one of the most important things in our lives as it can increase our learning speed, helps us remember more information, and allow us to be happier individuals in general.</div>
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<span style="background-color: #a2c4c9;">But… the biggest bottleneck that few of us attempt to improve is our morning habits. If you want to become more productive and effective during your day, then you need to optimize your morning habits. How we structure and spend the first few hours of each day will determine how the rest of our day will play out, and how effective we can be in our lives.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #a2c4c9;">Luckily, there are simple and easy-to-implement habits that you can do today to increase your productivity for the day, and for the rest of your life.</span></div>
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Studies have shown that those lacking sleep and suffering from insomnia is mostly due to artificial light confusing our internal clocks. When a group of individuals suffering from sleep deprivation went on a camping trip without exposure to artificial light or alarm clocks, their sleep inertia rapidly disappeared within days.</div>
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The conclusion from researchers was that the best way to fall sleep sleep and improve the quality of your sleep is to be next to natural sunlight, which is also helpful for waking up in the morning naturally.</div>
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2. Meditate</h2>
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There’s a lot of advice online on how to approach meditation, and it can seem overwhelming to someone who’s never experienced it. The truth is: there’s no one way to meditate. Everyone has a different approach.</div>
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While the methods of meditation vary, the benefits are clear. Meditation reduces our anxiety levels, increases our productivity, and even improves our memories. Studies have shown that after a 20-minute meditation session, our brains are more focused and less distracted, which allows us to remove multi-tasking, achieve our goals for the day faster, and become a top performer.</div>
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We only have so much willpower in a typical day. In order to effectively use our willpower towards the tasks that matter, it’s better to minimize the number of decisions we make in the morning. Most of us go through the same routines in the morning, but there are always routines we can automate.</div>
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Can you picking out your outfit before bedtime, eat the same breakfast each morning, waking up earlier to avoid route changes, and more? This may seem boring at first, but you’ll be surprised how morning automation can provide you the flexibility to be more productive and spontaneous throughout the rest of your day.</div>
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According to Gary Keller, the author of The One Thing, the best way to prioritize our never ending to-do lists is to pick “the Domino Effect”. The Domino Effect is when a task that you complete or an action you take, will make everything else on your list easier to complete or even unnecessary.</div>
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For example, if your goal is to learn Spanish before travelling to South America this year, is it worth paying a $1,000 to go to a language school for 3 months to learn everything about the language? Or is it better to focus your time, energy, and money on learning the common Spanish phrases you’ll use with a native speaking professional teacher from South America for less than $150? The second is the right choice.</div>
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Take a look at your to-do list. How necessary or important are each of the tasks in achieving your end goals? Then pick only one from the list that will create a Domino Effect for you, and block out time on your calendar to achieve it.</div>
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As we mentioned before, most human beings (unless you’re Elon Musk), have a limited amount of willpower, creativity, and energy in a day. This study done on the human brain shows that our prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for creativity, is the most active when we wake up. This explains why creatives, such as writers or designers, do their best work early in the morning upon waking up.</div>
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If this is true, then we must organize our morning schedule to do the hardest, if not the most creative task first thing in the morning. This allows us to most effectively use our brain capabilities and free up brain space to complete tasks that require less creativity or willpower throughout the rest of the day, such as editing, sending emails, phone calls, etc.</div>
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While this is a post about morning habits, how we spend our night has a massive impact on our productivity the following day. The biggest impact is preparation. Before you head off to bed, take 15-20 minutes to pick your most important tasks and schedule them in your calendar. The reason why scheduling is so important is because you can manage for time and how long a single task will take, which is very difficult to do on a typical to-do list.</div>
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Although not common in North America, Cold and Hot Hydrotherapy is enjoyed not only as a luxury in Finland, but a necessity. Several studies show that hot and cold hydrotherapy has multiple benefits for our health, including reduced stress, stronger immune system, increased ability to burn fat, and even fighting depression.</div>
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The method is rather simple. Simply shower and wash yourself the way you would normally in normal temperature water. Then, crank the nozzle to the coldest possible temperature and wait for 30 seconds. From there, crank the nozzle to the hottest possible temperature you can handle and hold for 30 seconds. And lastly, go back to cold temperature, and hold for 30 seconds.</div>
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Fair warning: if you’re not used to shocking your body in the morning, this may be a difficult approach to adopt at first, but it becomes easier and easier over repetition, like most things. This wakes you up quickly and effectively.</div>
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Ever wonder why people gravitate toward some individuals and not others, maybe even you? It could be at a party or a professional networking event, but wherever you’re, there’s always someone people pay the most attention to. Being that go-to guy or gal will pay off at both work and in your personal life, notes Lolly Daskal, founder of Lead from Within, a global consultancy that has counseled heads of state, consulted with leaders of multinational companies and coached entrepreneurs.</div>
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But there are several reasons why some people just don’t seem approachable, even if they really are friendly and interesting. Here are ways to generate positive vibes and have people flocking to be your friends or bosses assigning you the next big project.</div>
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Reasons Why People Seem Unapproachable</h2>
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1. Wearing a frown or unpleasant look on your face. This instantly steers people away from you. They perceive you as unhappy and negative and they don’t want that experience.</div>
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3. Using body language that closes yourself off. If you’re standing in a room with your arms crossed, that gives an instant signal that you do not want to be bothered and are not approachable.</div>
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By extending a compliment specific to a person, they’ll see that you’re taking the time to chat briefly with them. A quick “love that tie” or “great purse” to a co-worker in passing will give off positive vibes. Letting someone know that you love their shoes at a party may open up a window of opportunity to start speaking with them. Be sure your compliment is genuine, though, and not fake. Most people can sense the difference. Extending a compliment to someone and eliciting a smile in return also will brighten your day.</div>
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Shocker, right? The more you smile, the friendlier you seem to others, notes novelist Lisi Harrison. Also, studies show that people tend to mimic the expressions on others’ faces, so if you make it a habit to genuinely smile at others, they tend to smile right back. Another perk–research shows that simply smiling at others will make you happier, too.</div>
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Don’t hog the conversation or spotlight, but subtly encourage others. Listen to them, their stories. They’ll recognize you as a great listener and positive person.</div>
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This is a tried and true technique shared by New York Times bestselling author Gretchen Rubin where what you say about others influences how people feel and see you. If you talk highly of a co-worker, for example, then your audience will perceive you as someone who is just as worthy.</div>
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There’s actually a phenomenon called emotional contagion where people “catch” the emotions of other people and they really prefer to “catch” energetic, positive and upbeat moods. Even if you’re entering a boring business meeting, be positive and peppy. If you see yourself as more of a smart aleck with a little edginess, you can still present yourself as warm with those personality quirks.</div>
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Calling someone by their first name during a conversation or passing by in the hall really means a lot to that person. You noticed them. That practice can go a long way in the work world.</div>
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So, even if you know you’re witty, you’re fun, you’re a great person, but you just aren’t drawing attention at networking events or social outings, reevaluate how you appear to others, what you say and how you act, because you might inadvertently be giving off signals that you’re unapproachable. Simple changes, such as making eye contact, offering up sincere compliments, and being positive will help to make you a magnet to others.</div>
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Is it time to make some changes in your life? It just might be. Life is too short to not live it to the fullest.</div>
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Check out some signs it’s time to change your life.</div>
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1. Every week, you cannot wait for Friday.</h2>
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Fridays are fun, but one thing I’ve discovered in my quest to find and do work I absolutely love is that almost every day can be really fun. If you’re saving all your living for the weekends, it’s time to truly think about your lifestyle and consider making some changes. Don’t get me wrong; it’s great to have plans you look forward to on the weekends, but what if you could have that excited Friday feeling most, if not all, days of the week? It takes a lot of self-discovery and work, but it’s truly possible to live a life you love—even on Mondays.</div>
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Vacations are great, but what’s even better is building a life you don’t need to take a vacation from. As Seth Godin said, “Instead of wondering when your next vacation is, maybe you should set up a life you don’t need to escape from.” Vacations are fun and exciting, but even better is building a life where you have the potential to do what lights you up many weeks of the year, not just your two allotted vacation weeks.</div>
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If you haven’t found your passion in your current life, you’re not going to find it if you continue to do your same routine, over and over, year after year. In order to discover what lights you up, start by creating the space in your life to seek it. Give yourself time to figure out who you are, what your strengths are, and what picques your interest. Experiment with learning new things, spending time with inspiring people, and doing more of what excites you and less of the things that suck your energy.</div>
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Life is too short to spend your years not living to your full potential. If you decide you’re ready to change your life, I encourage you to start taking small action steps toward the life you want to live. Keep moving forward.</div>
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relationshiptipsnghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14518574717798698509noreply@blogger.com0Germany, PA 17340, USA39.736058100000008 -77.1082443999999939.638389100000005 -77.269605899999988 39.833727100000011 -76.946882899999991tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7431801608302178166.post-11995204223190793262016-07-10T13:50:00.000+01:002016-07-10T13:50:14.231+01:00Why You Should Learn Tantric Sex<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It's time for your best sex ever, check out these easy tantra positions and exercises to learn how to activate amazingly powerful mind-body connections with your partner.</div>
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Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice that has been going for over 5,000 years, tantric sex simply means the weaving and expansion of energy, it's a slow form of sex that increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms.</div>
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Continue to sit on his lap and rock together — you inhaling while he's exhaling and vice versa. As he breathes out, you'll discover yourself breathing his breath into your body and down to your sex organs. As you exhale, be conscious that you're sharing all of yourself with your partner. Then kiss and share the breath. "Intercourse is not even necessary because you're so merged," says Cartwright. "Tantra is about diving deeply into desire and pleasure. If you feel good and ecstatic, then you're on the right track."</div>
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Sit on the bed or floor, facing your partner (you're on his lap). Start by closing your eyes, and use your imagination to watch your breath move in and out of your body. Start to allow your breath to go three inches below your belly button. Begin rocking like you're in a rocking chair, moving your chest forward as you inhale and rocking back as you exhale. Then, as you inhale and rock forward, tighten your PC muscles; relax them as you exhale and rock back. "You may start to feel sexual sensations," says Cartwright. Stare into each other's eyes ("soul gazing") and breathe, rock and pulsate together. "The amazing connection that you'll feel will blow your mind," says Cartwright. "Your energy fields get together, so you're both in the same state and are much more sensitive to each other. It's very electric."</div>
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Sign up for a 5K race or schedule a game of tennis. Merely anticipating a competition triggers a 24 percent boost in testosterone for women, according to a study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior. And any increase in that hormone also drives up your libido.</div>
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Prior to sex, take a hot bath, or, if you're short on time, place a warm washcloth over your vulva for a few minutes. Heat boosts blood flow to your vagina, leading to increased lubrication and sensitivity, says Hilda Hutcherson, author of Pleasure.</div>
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Let an ancient sex stimulant work its magic: Warm some milk, add a pinch of saffron, and drink up, says Aliza Baron Cohen, author of Sex: Rediscovering Desire Through Techniques & Therapies. Saffron, which releases its intense flavor when heated, has been considered an aphrodisiac for thousands of years.</div>
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During the first two days of your cycle, your testosterone levels surge, your libido soars, and your breasts and clitoris become ultra-sensitive, says Gabrielle Lichterman, author of 28 Days, a daily guide to your menstrual cycle. Intense orgasms may happen more easily than usual — and multiples are much more likely.</div>
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Women who use vibrators say they have an easier time reaching orgasm during (vibrator-free) sex with a partner, according to a survey of 1,656 women conducted by the Berman Center. If you're tech-friendly, try the iBuzz, a vibrating "bullet" attachment that plugs into your MP3 player and stimulates you in time to your favorite tantalizing tunes.</div>
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Raise your odds of climaxing during sex from 23 to 77 percent with the Coital Alignment Technique, says Dubberley. Have your partner lie on top of you, with his pelvis directly over yours. Wrap your legs around his thighs and rock together gently. Push up and forward so that your clitoris makes contact with the base of his penis. Patience is key: Find your rhythm and stick to it until you orgasm.</div>
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You know those annoying dots you get on your eyelids and under your eyes? To prevent those, start with your bottom lashes when putting on your mascara. Otherwise your top lashes will smudge when you look down. When doing your top lashes, look straight ahead and place your wand at the base of your lashes. Then, use a zig-zagging motion while moving the wand up your lashes, recommends Marlena, founder and CEO of the blog Makeup Geek. "This will help give your lashes a curled effect. Keep repeating this until you get your lashes as thick as you want, usually two to three coats. When it comes to the bottom lashes, tilt your head forward slightly to keep from getting mascara onto your cheek." You can also use a credit card, business card, or small piece of paper to keep your mascara from traveling.</div>
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Are you spending more time separating your lashes than actually putting on mascara? Here's a quick fix: "Don't pump the wand in and out of the bottle," says Marlena. "This pushes air into the tube, which will make the mascara dry out faster, causing clumping and flaking. Instead, gently twist the wand back and forth or in circular motions to pick up the desired amount of product." When you remove the wand from the bottle, make sure to scrape off any excess mascara. If all else fails, make sure you have a lash separator on hand (you can use an old wand for this—just wash it first)</div>
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Applying mascara is not a one-size-fits-all thing. If your eyes are further apart, for example, it's better to put more coats on the inner part of your eyes, says makeup artist Sonia Kashuk. But if your eyes are close together, you want to make them look less so by focusing on the outer edges. You can also use different techniques depending on whether you want your lashes to look longer, fuller, curlier, or just classic and clump-free.</div>
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Curling your eyelashes can help make your eyes look bigger. "The main thing when applying mascara is definitely beginning with opening up the eyes," says Kashuk. "An eyelash curler goes hand in hand with mascara." Start at the root of your lashes, being careful not to get any skin into the curler. Press it together and hold it for about 10 seconds, then move it out to the end of your lashes and repeat.</div>
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Ok I believe it makes you feel some type of way, but literally transforms your brain? Eh that’s doing in my brains thinking of it right now, but hey I am not a scientist, No Sir/ Ma’am. So I am going to go with the flow and along with you, see what scientists say happens to our brains when we head over heels, fall in love.</div>
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to those in the know aka Scientists, when we fall in love, we often think of the wonders it does to our heart and soul. But there’s another organ that’s deeply affected by your loving relationships: Your brain. And it goes far beyond feeling emotions from sappy love songs, puppy dog eyes and Emoji heart-filled texts. When you’re head over heels for someone, some parts of your brain are activated, and others are switched off. That’s right, love, both romantic and parental, is actually altering the way you think.</div>
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Now don’t come at me with, there is nothing like love, all these Lagos women want money, all these Lagos men are players… the list is endless. This write up is for those who ARE in love, willing to look for it and believe in it. Party poopers, go hate somewhere else. So where were we? Smitten with someone? Here’s how your brain is handling your romance.</div>
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You Feel Addicted<br />
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Ever hear that love is a drug? Well, there may be some truth to that. Your brain houses these intensely passionate feelings using the same system that’s activated when a person is addicted to drugs, from the euphoria you feel to your cravings for more. Sure, it might bea much healthier addiction, but let’s face facts, shall we? You’re an addict.</div>
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You Start Thinking In Twos<br />
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it’s<span style="text-align: left;"> </span><span style="text-align: left;">not just “me, me, me” anymore. Now, there are two of you to think about and your brain will automatically pick up the changes. From birth, we’re linked to our mothers and much to scientists’ surprise, the connection transforms and changes with each relationship we have. The bond you share with your partner or children runs way deeper than just on the outside. A study linked using first-person singular pronouns (me, myself and I) to higher rates of depression than those who say “we” and “us.” More proof that healthy relationships are invaluable.</span></div>
You Love Longer (And Become Wiser)<br />
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Falling in love is as good for your heart as it is for your mental health. People in love report higher levels of dopamine, which is linked to pleasure, desire and euphoria. Studies report that people in positive healthy relationships, live longer, are happier, wiser and have better mental health.</div>
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You’re More Supportive<br />
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One of the biggest benefits of falling and staying in love is that you’ll learn what it’s really like to lean on (and support) another person. Building trust in a relationship is crucial. And, your brain helps you out with that. Through MRI scans, researchers have found that when we fall in love, (wait for it…) the frontal cortex the area of the brain that’s responsible for judgment, shuts down. So when we’re in love, we’re less likely to be critical or skeptical of the person we care about.</div>
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You De-Stress<br />
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Some of us might mistake those butterflies surrounding your first kiss but there’s no way your brain will ever forget how it first felt to be touched by someone you’re in love with. Here’s the completely crazy part: in healthy relationships, holding on to your partner’s hand is enough to keep you from stressing, lower your blood pressure, ease your physical pain and improve your health( Lagos guys take note and start hand holding pleeaaase…). A healthy, encouraging relationship actually alters your brain function.</div>
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You Glow (Well, Your Brain’s Reward Centers Do!)<br />
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Wondering what the key to longevity is in a relationship? Scientists found it( holy moly!!!) In a study that assessed couples who defined themselves as “madly in love”, scientists found that the reward centers of their brains lit up after just looking at a picture of their spouse. In the calm and stress sites of the brain, researchers found a reduction in light up activity. Let the bright lines shine, baby!</div>
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You Feel Safe<br />
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Similar to the first bonds babies make with their mothers; the feeling of security will emerge in your relationship. As you age and change, your body actually remembers the brain cycles and stages that you went through in your youth so when you feel reconnected to your baby self, those feelings of safety and contentment will come flooding back. Research also shows that when we feel love for someone, it shuts down the part of our brain that controls fear and negative emotions.</div>
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1. "You look nice tonight."</h2>
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Women may be used to hearing physical compliments from men, but it's not always so the other way around. A simple, "That sweater looks really nice on you," bolsters his confidence and puts him at ease. Be wary of "you're cute" though; it makes a guy wonder if you think he's a puppy.</div>
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2. That You Think He's Funny</h2>
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Don't ask him to tell you a joke, but if he says something funny, feel free to laugh your head off. A woman's laugh, particularly if it's a little odd, is incredibly endearing. It also says to the guy that you get his sense of humor and find him delightful.</div>
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3. "I'm close with my family."</h2>
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It's not the end of the world if you're not, but there's something lovely about a woman lighting up while talking about her nice, normal, supportive parents.</div>
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4. That You Had an Awesome Weekend</h2>
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An active social life indicates that you are already in demand and a romantic relationship is just the icing on the cake for you. Hearing that you're out and about makes you seem fun, but don't go so far that it makes it seem that you're too busy for a potential bf.</div>
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3. "Let's get another."</h2>
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This could be another round of drinks, or any type of continuation of the date. If you had dinner, for example, it could be you suggesting a good gelato place down the street. This upping of the ante is saying that you're enjoying yourself and want to continue to get to know him.</div>
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4. "Oh! I love [insert shared hobby/movie/book] too!"</h2>
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The more obscure the common interest the better. But don't bullsh*t this one - only say you love that hobby if you're ready for him to get into it with you for the next ten minutes.</div>
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5. "We should go there sometime."</h2>
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If the date is going well and one of you is going on about the greatest jazz club in the city, it doesn't hurt to issue a non-specific invitation to said establishment. Saying, "I love jazz. We should go sometime," tells the guy that you like him and are interested in future dates.</div>
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6. That You're Kick-Ass</h2>
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A little bit of confidence in your abilities and skills goes a long way on a first date. Guys want to know that you're awesome at something, and the more out-there that thing is, the more intrigued we'll be.</div>
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7. "Can I help pay?"</h2>
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Many gentlemen feel the need to pay, at least on the first date. Still, it is awesome that you offered. Maybe next time?</div>
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8. "I had a great time."</h2>
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We men can be clueless at times. Every step he's walking you toward your door he's wondering if you're going to kiss. A simple "I had a great time" lets him know you're as into him as he is into you. And it's a great invitation to that first smooch.</div>
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